07 August 2007

Psychology

Zj has been telling me tt no matter how busy i'm...pls update!
Okay, i'd like to share with you 1 typical lesson. Please read through & advise me if i have chosen a right course.
Psychology is basically a very scary course as you get to understand the true you. Like it or not, fact is fact. You can do 10 different psy tests & if u are 100% honest to the questions, all the 10 after test evaluation shall relate to one another. For Psy course, many are called but few are chosen. I hope I can make it through!
In my very 1st lesson with Dr Fong, this is what he said;
In Life, there are no Victims ONLY Volunteers.
Volunteers = Choice which means you volunteer (choose) to be a victim. The opp word of Victim is Victor. The different between these 2 words are the last 2 letters. Vict"IM" ends with "IM" while Vict"OR" ends with "OR"
IM = Admit & OR = Choice.
When u choose to be a Victim, u admit that "IM" a VictIM. If you choose to be a Victor, it means u have a choice!
Everybody have a different systemic perspective. Different in terms of that we all Feel, Act, See & Think differently.
Here goes a line that all of us should practice; I'm only human, I also make mistake & i'm still learning. When this phrase comes out in a conflict, no matter what problem you have, it will automatically cool down the scene.
Ok, so much for this entry, pls let me know if you understand y i LOVE this course so much! & i also hope u (my reader) can benefit from this post! ;)